For you, it might sound odd that me, the girl who is always recommending the No-Poo method, is telling you that she doesn’t like this method anymore. Also, it might sound odd for you to hear that I do not recommend either this new trend called the Curly Girl Method. However, I’m a stronger believer of always using the best for your hair, since in the long run, this is what everybody here is looking for. So stop using all those methods and create yours!

When we hear about both these methods the first images that pop into our mind are the “healthy” hair of many women out there. However, none of these methods are perfect for us. Instead, we should:

Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. Abstain from all appearance of evil.

Thessalonians 5:21-22 KJV

So, in other words, take the good out of things and leave the bad one behind. This is exactly what I do with everything, and there is no exception to these two methods. The reason why I say this is that not everything applies to everyone. We are all different, and so are our hairs.

But again, do not get me wrong! These methods are perfect for beginners who are starting to take care of their hair and need some guidance. However, none of these methods are for you to use it as the ultimate guide for your hair because every hair type has different needs and ways to take care of it. Preferably, I would recommend you (once you have already used the previous methods mentioned before and have some knowledge about how curly hair works) to start building your own method little by little. I know first hand that this will take time and some dedication to it, but believe me, it is worth it.

Reference: A Guide to the Curly Girl Method & No Poo Method

How can I build my own hair care method?

Believe it or not, you don’t need to go out there right now and buy all the products you can, only to find the best ones for your hair. Furthermore, you don’t need to be trying everything that you can implement into your routine simply to find out if it works or not. This would be a waste of money and time. Instead, you should start with what you already have at home. You don’t have to overthink it.

Steps:

1. Use your current method:

It might sound contradictory, but it is not at all. This is what you already are familiar with, and I want to make it as simple as possible for you to transition into your new method. So, take that method and use it as a guide.

*If you don’t have a method I recommend you to try the Curly Girl Method then proceed to create your own.

2. Identify what is and isn’t working:

You might find out that just cleaning your hair with water is not enough for you to get rid of excessive oil, or perhaps, that co-washing your hair three times a week is making your scalp too dry, and you have tried every product to help but hasn’t worked. This is why you need to find out what helps your hair grow healthier and go for it.

3. Strikeout or replace:

Remove the steps of your method that are not helping your particular case, and don’t be afraid of it. Remember that your hair is different. Also, feel free to add to your method anything that is working for you.

4. Review all your products:

Now it is time to examine all the products you already have at home. See which are working for you and which are not and separate them. For the products that are not good for your hair don’t get them again. Because they just do not work!

*It is essential to take into consideration not only how your hair looks like after applying the product, but also how your scalp reacts to it, furthermore, it is crucial to know what chemicals are used to make that product. If you apply chemicals such as sulfates, alcohol, parabens, and others, they can delay your achievements and harm your hair.

5. Make the white list of products:

At this point, you might be asking yourself: Why do I need to separate the products that are not working for my hair? Well, here you will have the reason for it. If you make a list of the products that work for you (and believe me they are only a few), you will know which ones are going to work for you on those desperate moments you need to find something quick and that works for your specific need. Sometimes we have been with a product for so long that we tend to forget those who once were also good for us. This is why this white list of products comes in handy.

As you may see in the template, the list is divided by what are the uses of the product. You may find that some products can fall into two different categories, in that case, you can add the name in both. With this list, you will be able to have a quick reference for those special moments where you want to find the best products for your hair.

Conclusion

To finish with this brief article about why you should not take the Curly Girl Method or any Method as the ultimate guide and how to create the perfect method, I would like to emphasize that everything takes time a dedication. Even for all the women, you see out there with gorgeous and healthy curly hair. You just need to find what is right for you and your hair.

I hope all of you have a wonderful day and to not give up on your hair. It is better to work towards something that will help your hair be healthier than working towards something that will eventually damage your hair.

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xoxo,